Sorry it’s been so long but i have been having really bad issues with my husband one of which during an arugement my husband grabbed me by my throat and holding me backwards which led me to scratch the hell out of his face. When he did that i called my dad to take the kids so i could call the cops. After my dad came, I decided not to call the police. It was the first time in our 5 years together that he ever layed a hand on me. I think he just got caught up in the emotions of our arguement. Anyway, so i’ve been very stressed so i couldnt really write.
We are a bit better now, it has never gotten that far and it never will again because i swore that if he ever puts his hands on me like that again, i would be gone. That would be it, and i have my dad and therapist’s support on that.
I am sorry that happened to you. I hope you have somewhere to go if that ever happens again.
Kindy
Comment by Kindy — June 22, 2008 @ 5:28 pm
Thanks Kindy, it was a bad situation, and i hope it doesn’t happen again.
We’ve never escalated to that point before, he’s NEVER laid a hand on me ever before. I hope it was a wake up call for him, it certainly was a wake up call for me about what people are capable of. At least now i have some awareness.
As for where i would go, I’m not worried about me, it’s my children. If i had to pick up and go and hide, they would suffer. And that alone would kill me. If it came to that, i would just have to trust that God has His hand on us and would guide us. There is nothing else I would be able to really do.
But lets hope for the best…
Comment by sunshine4shadows — June 23, 2008 @ 6:48 am